If you have never been in a polyamorous relationship
you need to sit down with yourself and think seriously about
these questions: Is this what you are looking for? Can you be with more than
be with more than one person and feel love for both? Will you be jealous of one of them
of them? How committed can you be?
Not everyone is able to do it. We all have our own emotional
boundaries. So it's okay if you've thought about it and come to the conclusion
you're not ready. It's always best to be honest with yourself before
everything.
You are a married couple, so remember that you are the extra member. That's not a bad thing; it just means they have a history together. So make sure the couple is healthy, happy and committed to each other.
each other. You should not be used as a tool to get someone to leave the relationship.
Relationship. Make sure all three of you are on the same page. Since this is not a simple traditional relationship, you need to be clear about this
You need to be clear about what you want from the relationship and what rules you want to
want to implement.
You don't just want to cuddle or text with one of the two partners?
You need to know what you are comfortable with before you even start talking to the couple.
